Dating sober alcoholic
Not that I understood it then, but, now, after those first couple of years, you go fifty-two more years and I realize that the most important thing is selfish recovery for a couple of years, above the job, the kids, the wife, and everything.
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I would scour the city for an experimental play, or suggest we go on adventures hours away in the Hudson Valley; I was determined to try to find activities that showed this stranger that I was still interesting without alcohol.
But a family member who sees somebody get sober, and this happens all the time, will say, “Now that you’re sober you’re spending all your time going to AA. ” What I’m going to tell the alcoholic and the spouse is, “Me is more important.
Often, finance, children and other circumstances prevent any simple solutions.