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It’s important that you respect each other’s values and boundaries.If you’re not compatible in this area, the relationship will only hit roadblock after roadblock.In our culture, you'll find a traditionally-rooted respect for elders that you won't find anywhere else.
Talk about sexual boundaries and expectations early on, and be cautious about moving forward physically if your relationship has elements of the traditional in it. Conversely, if sex is important to you in a dating relationship, your date needs to know that.
This should give you the freedom to communicate just as clearly about where you hope and/or expect the relationship to lead.
While everyone has the potential to play games, Indian culture traditionally takes the quest for a mate quite seriously and doesn’t look fondly on casual dating. A danger in dating someone from the same culture as you is the assumption that you value the same things. Talk about your cultures, your friends, your families, and your histories. How do you see each other fitting into each other’s worlds?
A Jewish friend of mine remarked once, only half joking, that he believed Indians are the true Chosen People. I lived in India for about three years and my husband (currently known as my hus Pad, thanks to his appropriating the i Pad he "gave me," -- but that is another column) is from New Delhi, which, in addition to providing me with lots of Indian friends and in-laws, have given me a pretty good perspective on the desirability of the people from the world's largest democracy -- and how to woo them. If you are pinched for time, you can simply claim SRK is your favorite and move on. You don't want your date to think that if things go south, you will resort to stalking.
Before getting to "how," let's start with "why." There are obvious reasons one would want to date an Indian, such as how successful and professionally desirable they are. But, if you want to take some initiative, I highly recommend you familiarize yourself with some Bollywood actors and choose a favorite. Good luck and let me know how these suggestions work out.
Our taste buds have become impervious to American spices; Tabasco ain't got nothin' on us.